I agree! Porn actually saves our marriage.... there are day I'm sooooo tired and I just can't... My huband will grab a video from under our bed, plug it in and do what he's gotta do. I don't feel guilty for rolling over and getting rest and he doesn't feel guilty pressuring me. And sometimes I wake up in the process, get turned on, and I give him round 2. Bottom line, this is your husband, not a criminal... so don't treat him like one!