Totall agree, spot on PhysicsGirl.

I was asking myself some of the same questions: where in the US can people be so ignorant to think that Africans live in trees? and why not sit down to join the spouse (what would be the right way for her (or him) to approach that? I am guessing the guy would be thrilled to have his wife join him for viewing but probably assumes she would be, at best, turned off and, at worst appalled and offended)?

I do need some help in interpreting one of Pru's comments: is she saying that the husband is unlikely to confess, unlikely to be helpless or unlikely to be addicted to porn (or all three)? What do you think she meant? People should realize that a man (or woman) who is "caught" looking at porn is not necessarily "addicted" to it. There is a big difference between the occasional glimpse, the frequent visit and the outright addiction. My guess is that he looks on occasion (like MANY (most?) men I know) but it clearly had not gotten in the way of his life (both in and out of the bedroom) or she would have noticed.