What BeeStaNG should have done was walk up to the Bachelor and say: "That would be great!! We can all go down, get rooms, the ladies will have a night out at the Bellagio, I know a great place we can eat at, then see a show, and party on while you boys do your thing! A bachelor party in Vegas would only cost you a few grand, to book the room, you will need a fully stocked bar with a bartender, and food for your guests, let them get their own room, plus you will need tipping money." The Bachelor will be thinking about that "few grand" the cost of a fully stocked bar, plus bartender, they won't come cheap, plus you can't tip Bachelor party girls only dollars, you gotta have some cash! And food? Vegas isn't cheap. Then she should have nudged Bachelor, winked, and said "after all, what happens in vegas stays in vegas..." and give an excited giggle. Then she should have turned to the husband and put him in charge of the planning, by telling him he will need to get a list of all the men, and ask them to pitch in a few hundred dollars each. If all the men on the party list make a decent salary they can afford to pitch in for their wonderful Bachelor friends last hoo-rah. But most likely, they don't want to pitch in a few hundred dollars, and the husband most likely will NOT want to be the party planner, and most likey king Bachelor Boy will not get his last hoo-rah the way he was envisioning it the way it was described. BeeStang could have still been the cheerleader expressing how much fun all the couples could have had and be bummed that "we" aren't going to Vegas. Most married men and many single men think the idea of a Bachelor party is fun or exciting, and will partake in the activities, and many don't, and that doesn't mean they are gay.