Jim Bigdaddy5, welcome back, I look forward to your comments. Hurricanejbb's first name is Jim, also.

If she is the one, and you really love her, you'll adjust your present situation. I courted Elizabeth for 172 days before I married her 8 years ago. I have no regrets that I left a lucative educational consultantship, sold off my 1300 volume reference library to 3 college/universities; 500+music/movie collection, 4 rooms of new furnishings, and a new car. Left my three daughters and granddaughter FOR LOVE.

Started a new life with Elizabeth and her only son Tomás, knowing he was the reason she married me,because none of her suiters or her husband loved him. I started a successful tutoring practice which gives me a good income. I have no debts, own our village estate, and our new apartment outside of Budapest, two cars and pay cash for everything. I stay in touch with my 1st wife, our three daughters, grandson/granddaughter by mobile phone, fax, email and letter writing.

Bigdaddy5, I wish you the best in your pursuit of a loving soulmate.