p.s. San, way to blame the victims. Once again you show the level of class and empathy that has come to be your trademark.

Here's a quote from William Hazlitt for you to mull over, San:

"Does the love of virtue denote any wish to discover or amend our own faults? No, but it atones for an obstinate adherence to our own vices by the most virulent intolerance to human frailties."