It doesn't work that way, Shotsie. Masturbation is a great thing. It is also "real" sex. It is also just fine to be done while in a relationship. It is an okay thing to do together. In fact, I love watching my wife use her vibrator. Hope that's not too much information.

She has different and more intense orgasms with the toy than with me or with her hand. But the vibrator is indeed an inanimate object and not a replacement for a relationship.

This girl, like many females, may in fact learn to have an orgasm with the vibrator, and learn how to communicate that to a partner later in life.