baltimore aureole:

i'm simply pointing out that any girl who is more eager to acquire the black and decker power masturbation tool set, rather than have a boyfriend to talk to - she's disconnected.

I don't think that these two things are mutually exclusive. After all, she can't just mail order a boyfriend. And it may be that she's not interested in being intimate with any of the boys of her acquaintance, but being a normal healthy teen has a desire for sex. It sort of sounds like you're saying that she should just find some guy because she has urges, regardless of how suitable he is, and .. uh ... talk to him. It's a little strange. Now, if she's spending her evenings with her vibrator and not doing anything social, then you'd have a point.