with both your boss and Anna.

You know, at the root of all dysfunction in the world, be it relationship, family, government, company, is lack of accountability and transparency. Ask any dictator, corrupt CEO, or abusive spouse what they fear most and the answer will invariably come back: accountability and transparency

Anna is accountable to you and your boss, just like you are to them, and he is to you. You're all conspiring to make this an awful work environment-- you at least much less so. Save the secrets and lies for daytime TV, sweetheart. Hold the people around you accountable and you make the world a better place everyone.