tashakate:

Prudie then said she'd know when it was exactly the right thing for her to lose her virginity.

Yeah, I agree that was a completely bogus statement. Honestly, when a person loses their virginity, whether it was the right time or not really depends on how things fell out. For instance, a good friend of mine lost his virginity to his long time girlfriend. She turned around a few weeks later and had sex with someone else and then told him he was terrible at it. It really didn't make it easy for his future sexual relationships and he wasn't sure if it was a good idea. But, I think had things gone better, he might have had a different opinion.

tashakate:

but to continue to give girls the false impression that an otherwise perfectly nice, kind guy will always wait, and only an asshole bad boy dumps a girl because they're tired of waiting, or loses interest after ... doesn't reflect the real-life complex emotions and hormones involved for both partners.

Agreed. If a person isn't getting what they want in a relationship, why are they an asshole if they end a relationship to get what they want? If she's not ready for sex and he really desires to have sex, ending the relationship doesn't make him an asshole. All relationships end because one or both people aren't getting what they really want.....