Name one government program which is any different?

They all are. That is precisely why the government should not insert itself into areas of life that could be left up to the free market.

In a similar vein, isn't it time for you and fellow libertarian oriented conservatives to grow up?

Huh. I want to be responsible to pay for my own insurance. You want me to be responsible to pay your insurance because apparently you aren't capable of taking care of yourself and your own family. And I'm the one who needs to grow up?

Sounds to me like you're wanting to act like one of my dependents.