We generally pretend the fake letters are real, because otherwise, what would we discuss?

And we typically take them at their word, with a grain of salt because nearly ecveryone spins stories to make themselves look better.

However, If he lies down on top of her and she has explained many times how she feels and he tells her she needs to get over it, then sorry. He's a not a run-of-the-mill overgrown child, but a guy on a power trip. I still say, if this is how he acts when they are just dating, I can't imagine how bad it would get when he quits trying to make a good impression!