Yeah I still don't see it. If you read it that way then you did, but that was not at all what I was saying.

What I was saying - being held down and powerless sucks ass and can screw you up in plenty of ways. That is actually not specific to tickling, rape, sex, or anything. Just a general statement on the ways of being. If you are a big enough guy that you've never been at the complete mercy of somebody else, great but then you probably don't understand that true physical powerlessness either.

(ps - sex & being held down, so long as you have a safe word you are not powerless and that is not what I'm referring to either)