lol.

Just about any guy can get a 1/2" and some increase thickness some with Jelqing and Horse exercises which is basically stretching your private part the way people stretch their ears and necks.

It takes a loooong time to see results but it does work. The first by stretching the ligament and the other by stretching the girth to be bigger.

Rereading my above email- women complain about 9" being too big. Tho I've gotten a couple "take it easy's" when I was just the right angle, I've never been told I was too big.

I suppose size is one of those great equalizers. A poor guy can have a beast and a handsome rich guy can have a mere pimple. Then there are some folks like Gary Cooper (known as "horse" by the actresses) who were rich, good looking, not an asshole, and hung too.

I read "The G Spot" by Donald Hicks. I've recommended it and the response from men is almost always discomfort. But it taught me a lot. Almost magic to be honest. And the biggest point? Emotional connection and how to recognize the signs of different levels of arousal. While some women have functional G spots from the beginning- for most I've had to warm them up- wait for the signs and then when the light was "go", then and only then proceed.

The same thing is true for men-- so many go straight for orgasm- but the longer you ride the edge, the more intense it finally is when you it happens. Entire parts of your body don't turn on until you've been at a certain level for a while.

I wish sex wasn't so complicated emotionally or tied to being in full time relationships. I like a stable partner but I also am unsuited for a full time married life. I need at least three days a week alone.