PP you're scary, and I think you've got a moralizing corn cob up your butt. Take it out, relax that adamatium spine of yours and have a little fun. And lose the Pinoeer dresses....they aren't flattering to anyone. Just because someone goes out without the other (and hey, they ain't married yet!) to a bar and a strip club, doesn't mean that they are going to cheat. Jeeze! Do you have a PI follow your SO around every moment of the day when you aren't with them to make sure they aren't doing anything that might make a 'mokery of marriage.'

You're prudishness just amazes me.....I'm really at a loss of what I really want to say to someone like you and how to say it......