There's some "rule-of-thumb" idea floating around out there that the price of your gift should equal what the bridal couple is spending on your meal. This isn't true.

MLibby, I'm sorry, I missed your "winky" in your first post. Didn't catch my gam being tugged. ;) That post must have happened while I was off my watch because they'da got a bitchslap from the Etiquette Nazi here. wink wink.