Hey SusanM!

I figure that any so-called man who belittles his fiance and her father because they're grieving the loss of the fiance's mother has few, if any, redeeming quailities. I'm willing to think the worst of him.

Also, if he's into kinks that he doesn't want her to know about, (remember, she discovered what really turns his crank through snooping), he's got to share 'em with somebody, right? Right.