I don't normally feel compelled to write after Prudie's advice but I feel particularly sorry for this LW. Having an abortion is not an easy decision for anyone, and I think there is always some pain and emotional residue even after being convinced it is the right course of action. While I have never had an abortion, I have been through a few incompetent therapists who may have done more damage than good. And let me tell you, there are quite a few of therapists of this ilk out there, unfortunately.

It will take time, and maybe you will always feel a kernel of remorse. But what's done is done, and cannot be undone. Try another therapist, and keep trying until you find somebody who succeeds in making you feel good about yourself ... period. That is the bottom line. Nothing in life looks good if you feel BAD, and it colors everything, especially the decisions you make regarding the treatment you will accept (and deserve) from others.

Good luck to you, dear. I hope you find peace and happiness in your life.