LaurieAnnM:

One attack dog left out of the mix..and it's no change and no peace at all.

that's not totally true.

right now, when you rile up a ton of people and they speak up, it feels like a pile-on.

if we can at least get the people you know about to stop it, then it will no longer be a pile-on. the more people agree, the smaller the pile-on.

it isn't reasonable to demand that no one in the entire fray will ever say a bad thing about you. if you go off and make new enemies on other boards, that's not something we can control, nor should we have to.