Most of the defensive posts of the men are rooted in history with stereotypical responses from American culture, notably female American culture. To paraphrase the blunt posts by Toria and others, Caucasian men that date Asian women were first turned down by all beautiful Caucasian women. There is no consideration that some handsome, successful Caucasian men prefer Asian women or a particular set of features {slender, dark hair, dark eyes, slight skin} . Perhaps these traits could be identified more reliably in the absence of tanning and hair bleaching fads. Personally, I have a distaste for fake blondes.