If an adult woman "feels uncomfortable and second-best" over a dead woman, then she has issues and needs therapy. Or, more my style, my foot up her ass and then told to grow up. Come on now, who's kidding who. Is this another example of a poor, little American girl that wants all the attention and just will not settle for "second-best"? Well, tough. Most European women I know would care less AND expect their new husband to have a picture of his dead wife on the wall, "IT'S CALLED RESPECT FOR YOUR DEAD WIFE". I find it amazing how American women think completely opposite of logic and reasoning.