Wow deirwin you said that perfectly. My European fiancee is part Vietnamese and brought up in an Asian household. Her perspective on life is what you said, "simply to enjoy (her)themselves and express (her)themselves more freely. And her perception of sex is a 180 compared to American women. She loves it,,,even after an argument. She doesn't use it as a power or struggle to used against me. "A struggle that must be won or fought to a draw" and her concept of sex is to use it as a "pleasurable play between consenting adults". I get laid 3 to 5 times a week and we've been dating over 5 years. And she knows that I would never cheat on her and why would I with the great sex I'm getting.