Crimeny, EarlyBird; You say he's queer just because he's had sex in public restrooms. SEX is SEX. Buy yourself an egg-shaped dildo and then try to explain why you're capable of excitement when it isn't "male".

I hate to break it to you (I'm sure it is going to be painful for you to hear it), but there are plenty of people who are capable of understanding that it is possible to enjoy the sexual act without having found their partner "hot", "exciting" or in any way a turn-on. Someone who is "gay" finds themselves attracted to a person of the same gender. Why do you need him to be gay?

While I abhor what Craig has done (in particular, his putting forth a public face that was a lie), if he says that he isn't gay, I tend to believe him. WAKE UP. This guy is not filled with deep seated shame for being gay. If he IS filled with shame, it is my hope that he is feeling shame that his family and public know about his self-righteousness that he's shoved down our throats while finding "evil" in the hearts of others!

<hetero, monogamous great-granny who is neither self righteous nor a homophobe>