When I was 18 I had my first experience in NYC Times Square Subway bathroom. There were about 20 men at the urinals masturbating. Coming from a small town upstate I was shocked to see this. I was very sexual and this became a real turn on.

Over the years I have sat in bathrooms where there was a peep hole in the wall. There was a thrill waiting for just the right person to come in and be as turned on as I was. It was better than Atlantic City. There was always a concern of getting caught but that was nothing compared to finding someone you were attracted to. There were also the public showers at beaches and the rest stops along major highways.

As years went on I finally figured out that I was spending a lot of my time waiting for sex and that it was not worth it. Then in the 90's when everyone began to make a big deal about everything and AIDS became a concern for all, all the fun of cruising the bathrooms came to an end. The smart politicians rebuilt bathrooms to be cruise proof. Others stepped up patrols and you wound up in jail

Some of the most exhilarating sex I have ever had was in the bathrooms. No doubt it was a lot of fun.

As for Craig, I feel sorry for him. Wrong place to be at the wrong time in history. Unfortunately this meaningless act will cost him everything. Even though Craig was obviously cruising, the cops arrested him a bit to soon. Oh well, they got the guns so you have to take what they dish out.

Word of advice. If you get arrested, always say nothing, I mean nothing, and talk to a lawyer. No matter how tempting it is to defend yourself, say nothing.