mermaid33:

It terrifies these guys that women can enjoy sex with them just for the pleasure of having sex without being in wuv with them. They feel so used!

There you go again, we didn't say it scared us, and we didn't say we felt used. I did say that I didn't think there is such a thing as just sex. What I meant, is that lust IS emotion. (For you affect theorists out there, that would be the interest-excitement affect.) If you're having sex with someone, there's probably emotional connection. Maybe not committment or love, maybe just the ecitment of lust, but it's very definitely emotional.