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A question of modesty
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I have a 52 year old single female friend who's been invited to a party by an aquaintance. She's a mother of three but is very physically fit for her age. There is a hot tub at the party and my friend went out to buy herself three bikini bathing suits and is excited about showing off her body at this event. My initial reaction was to try and steer her toward a more modest appearance but decided it is not my place to project my values on her. This party will be attended primarily by married couples and I feel like my friend may be scorned by the married women there because she is so physically attractive, or leered at by the men. Should I keep my opinion to myself?
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