PhysicsGirl:

I think that people need to evaluate what they really want in life. It would be difficult for two teachers to own their own house and have multiple children based on their salaries. So people have to weigh their priorities and decide what may need to sacrificed in order to best obtain higher priority items. Unfortunately, we can't have it all.

exactly! So are teachers who prioritize finding a mate with whom they can afford to have children gold-diggers/princesses/lookin­g for sugar daddies? or are they just realists?