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In the U.S. Supreme Court's landmark decision in Loving v. Virginia in the plainest of words, the Court held:

• Marriage is one of the "basic civil rights of man," fundamental to our very existence and survival....

While it is not for everyone and should not be limited to straight couples or same race couples, it should also be seen as the lifelong shelter so many of us choose to protect us from the injustices of forces outside our loving marriages. We find solace, nurturing, protection, sanity, forgiveness, and romance in marriage. I am sad for those poor souls who would want marriage but cannot find the right mate. But I respect any person who chooses or prefers to reject the idea of marriage. Many of my friends, after devastating divorces, for example, have concluded "It's just not for me." I assume they are correct.

Fighting for same sex marriage should not entail warnings about how useless it can be in its worst forms. Everyone knows about the pitfalls. But it is the hopeful chance to enjoy the "fundamental right" to pursue happiness that should be afforded to all Americans, gay and straight.

• As I have written, marriage is as American as Mom, Mom, and Apple Pie.

The marriage bed conjures up the warmth and safety of two bonded souls. Two married people walking and holding hands, with or without children, conjures up the need to be part of a family defined in any special way we want. And the exchange of rings and vows represents our most vulnerable selves and our deepest hope for the loyalty from the precious chosen one.

Marriage isn't about dangers, legal liabilities, promiscuity, government assistance, divorce rates, or even religion. It is for many of us our only shelter from the world with a dear and loyal heart. It is a fundamental right in a free society and is among the most important reasons to fight for freedom.