Show me one case of a high-ranking religious or governement official who has participated in any kind of suicide attack the led to their own death. Just one. Hell, even a low ranking government official. From any country. You can't. You sound like a terrified little baby hiding under his bed waiting for the boogy man to come and get him.

Their leaders no doubt use religion in much the same way ours do, as a tool to keep the stupid sheep in line and get them to do their bidding while they enrich themselves.