Okay, wow. So if I want respect, I have to shape up EVERYONE who shares my habit, although I take personal responsibility for where my trash goes (and often, give an asshole smoker a proper earful for littering)?

Fine. I've known sex-obsessed, impolite, piggish men my entire life. Men, if you want respect, you better start policing your fellow men on what they say and how they act. (Christ, even just typing it sounds ridiculous)

FFS, is stereotyping suddenly OKAY as long as it justifies someone's overblown ire?