Kick to the genitals...awesome.

I'm with you.

Actually I find the whole bondage thing very disturbing. Not healthy at all. And because I don't think that's a normal way of expressing one's self sexually, does not mean I'm prudish in any way.

Calling someone a name (i.e. prude) because they don't subscribe to your way of thinking is a little childish...and shows an insecurity that leads me to wonder if they don't also know that it's not normal on some level.

It's very possible to love, or like, a person and not agree with their choices or behavior.