You are ill-informed. The people that you are referring to that hate and judge others are not following the God of Truth, the One True God, Jesus Christ. Those that follow Jesus, and seek the truth of God in the Bible, do not seek hatred and distruction, for our God is the God of peace. Satan, as the Bible describes, is the Prince of Darkness, the lover of lies and distruction. That is the God you have discribed. Jesus said, if you are not for me, you are against me. You are either for God, or you follow Satan. I know this sounds preachy, but this is what the Bible teaches, and the Bible has never been disproven. It is the truth. I encourage you to find out for yourself. Try to disprove it.