The fact of the matter is that whether this man has "needs" or not, porn DOES demean women and it is morally wrong. And yes, the woman has every right to be upset. It demeans their marriage, too. It also demeans the men who watch it.

Nearly all of the women involved in porn were traumatized as children, and all of them go through extremely coarse conditions on the set of porn films. Many of the women involved in porn start out being managed by agents who deliberately send them off to the most degrading and violent pornographers as a means to "break them into" the industry. The agents themselves often do this for their own sexual satisfaction and will masturbate openly on the set of each film. Before Max Hardcore was prosecuted for obscenity, he was a big favorite "first" for these agents. Khan Tusion is another.

Most of the women in porn are sent off to do these and other similar "gonzo" films where the main purpose is to fill them up with as much cock as possible, or psychologically traumatize them as much as possible. They're called degrading names on the set, many of them are raped off-screen, and some are coerced into doing things they did not originally agree to do. And then when they say, "But I wasn't signed up for this," the response is, "We'll sue you if you don't go through with it." And since many of them are uneducated, financially desperate, and emotionally vulnerable, they'll do it. There's also something called "privates" where the woman shows up, there's no cameras, and it's basically prostitution. And when they try to refuse, the pornographer says, "Well, your contract says this is a part of your work here." There's blatant prostitution on the porn industry on web sites like pornstarescorts.com, and the reason is because the women would rather get paid $1500 for a quick fuck than to spend 6 miserable hours on the set for the same amount of cash.

STDs are also a tremendous problem in the porn industry, and some females claim that all of the women have herpes. HPV is also extremely common, and often the women hide yeast infections by inserting sponges into their vaginas.

Drugs also are a tremendous problem! A lot of the women will admit that around 85% to 90% of the workers there are addicted to drugs. Moreover, some of the women who represent groups that support the industry's rights are open xanax addicts, marijuana addicts and alcoholics, so I'm sort of wondering, "Gee, should they really be representing the industry?"

Porn is nothing but exploitation, and it destroys people's lives. And yes, that woman has every right to be upset at this guy for masturbating to porn. Not only are they married, but every porn user, no exceptions, is unwittingly (or perhaps not!) supporting rape, child abuse, drug addiction, and an overall state of human misery!