Instead of stating that the husband is definitively cheating, all the women who have come on this board against porn are drawing conclusions with ZERO fact to back it up.

Is the man cheating? No. (Not "do you think he will cheat" or "did someone else cheat".. that's chasing smoke signals, and is a waste of everyone's time.)

Is the man shirking his parenting? No. If anything, the fact that he needs a break is a sign that he's doing it properly. Men don't need to seduce themselves or some other such female nonsense - this takes zero time. Taking care of business is biological.

Live in the world of reality, not in the world of fantasy. Stop creating problems where there are none. Pay attention to what the man ACTUALLY does, not what you think he might do.

Yes, he's an idiot for not knowing how to clean his tracks on the computer. But his desire for 3 minutes of personal space, to remind himself that he is king of his own castle - is not a bad thing.

This takes less time than a cigarette break. Lighten up. Recognize how lucky you are to have a husband who's emotionally into you and present as a parent. Don't project faults of others onto a good man.