So which is it? Does your aggrievement and resentment come from your identification as a woman because Hillary lost and was somehow "cheated" out of the nomination? (If I hear anything else about Florida and most especially Michigan, I'm gonna scream.)
Or are you down on Obama because of the contrived and largely speculative reasons you list later? Frankly, I think your handwringing over this is bullshit, because none of you people have spilt keystrokes or thought trying similarly to plumb the soul of John McCain to see if he is up to your exalted standards.
You want revenge and payback and another shot? Then save it till after the fucking election. For now, you'd better figure out which of McCain or Obama you want to be president and go with that. Maybe voting for Obama because he isn't McCain "isn't enough" for you. How about sitting by sulking and sniping at Obama while McCain wins, or perhaps even voting for McCain because he isn't Obama? Is THAT enough for you? Is that a more principled or intelligent stance, and one that's more likely to advance a single political goal that you care about?