as Freud said- the greatest mystery is: What does a woman want? of course money and power are good aphrodisiacs, but i know many women who are wealthy and choose nasty rough guys who mistreat and beat them, so who knows!? many women send love letters to convicted killers; the more violent the crimes, the more mail these felons receive from women who think that "my love will save him". when it comes to love, nobody knows anything.