well I do think you have proven that some women enjoy having their behinds kissed, or the "typical ones" do, or at least pretend they do when they are addressed by pale visitors who are trying too hard. It's the least they can do. Being a good host, you know. Is it possible that THEIR response, 'but that's ALL Chinese men' was ironic? You know, like when the female tour guide teased misanthrope Paul Thorough in that book about the Chinese Train, until he 'wanted to punch her'? When is it ever 'smart' to agree with white men, that's what I want to know? ha

However, please persist in your endeavor to save the female in China from extiction. They MUST find appropriate mates before it's too late.!