JGC:

“For me to disobey the Church is to disobey God no matter what my conscience tells me otherwise.”

>>So if god communicates his will to you but the church tells you not to comply, you have a choice of disobeying god by disobeying god or disobeying god by disobeying the church, and you’d elect to disobey god by disobeying god, rather than by disobeying the church?

Assuming for the sake of argument that one perceives some invested authority in the church, it may make sense to 'double-check' one's own personal experiences against this authority, and question personal experiences that don't seem to fit in. They do have an out for personal experience as they posit a devil that can masquerade as an angel, after all.

It might vaguely resemble a peer review or majority-rule process, with the caveat that the catholic system of authority is not reality-based. It's all a construct of articles of faith, but within that set of assumptions may seem reasonable enough.