Aw hell, I know, Emmajane. I just get more of a thrill out of being the rational one in a conversation than I get out of responding to oicuateonetwo in kind.

It seems to me that the key to a happy and harmonious marriage is...marry the right person...

Oh, and don't be freaking delusional going into it. Too many people, men and women both, go into marriage hoping it will fix issues, like some sort of magic wand. Then they hate it, because they are married to the same person they were dating before.

I am with you about airing dirty laundry in public. I have had friends tell me they can tell when I am really angry with my husband, because I don't mention him.

Freki