I think I remember you, as I don't think I'd been "out of control on the board" too often, and your 'voice' does remind me of one particularly nasty interaction where someone was attacking my relationships with the females in my life. I guess if that was you, then I shouldn't be surprised that you think I cannot have a more lasting relationship with someone I consider my soul mate. I really don't know how to take your message: schadenfreude? Either way, that's the challenge of posting personal feelings and experiences on the board, but I thank you for taking the time to relate your reaction and recommendations. Aside, I am aware of the work required to maintain a healthy relationship. For all it's worth, I had no control over what happened between me and my second wife. The changes were hers, and I was the unfortunate fool in love apparently standing in the way. I simply took the action that had to be taken thereafter.