So, the gist here is, fridhem:

I can make an abusive post(s) because I was also abused. I continue to make abusive posts (lets make an exception for the truly humourous ones) with all my self declared insight into abuse. It is not a sign that I may have some tendancies to abuse myself. I would rather defend my own abusive words than ever apologize or reconsider them.

We have no way of controlling the behavior of the OP and boyfriend. But we can take responsiblility to make sure our own responses aren't just as demoralizing. Oh, it's a fake poster? I guess fake cruelty is acceptable, too. Flame on.