Unfortunately I can't bring myself to treat women with little respect. Possibly due to the fact that 95% of my family are female and I don't get along well with the other 5%. So I keep falling into the nice guy trap.

I've always told myself that I'd rather live the rest of my life alone than have to conform to not being myself. However, like some other guy on fray said a couple of weeks ago. He started off looking for meaningful relationships until he reached a certain age, (23 I think). Then he simply started looking for sex and in all fell into place. Some of the women I believed concurred with what he said.