Holy crap, lady,

Not only should you stay with your beloved baby-daddy, but you should buy him a gun, so that even in his weakened cancerous state he will still be able to shoot you and your kid for being so stupid as to stay with an abusive jerk like him.

Think of it as evolution in action - getting rid of the less fit dumb asses so that the rest of us can survive and have a good laugh at your expense.

OR, you could have the last laugh, and get the hell out of there, now.

Good luck with that - that you are even asking such questions means you and your brat are long-lost causes, DUH

and Bless You!