An interesting take on the situation....

I have lived in two "haunted" houses; in other words, there was paranormal activity in them. Research proved that there was a reason for the first (it was located on a 90 degree turn on a country road, where there had been several fatal accidents, resulting in things like phantom cars pulling in to my driveway and their occupants walking up to my door). I found no reason for the activity in the second house, which it seemed was eternally occupied by a prankster with a cat.

My point is that spirits are everywhere, sometimes not where you would believe them to be and sometimes present for no apparent reason. All places on Earth have history, including LW's and her BF's home. Perhaps she should research their house and see how the BF reacts to her possible discoveries, and determine his real character.

Happy 4th to you as well, Travelall!