the language for these topics is awkward, and the concepts are often difficult for people to grasp. But I'm not only open to suggestions, I'm quite eager for them; if you can convey the concepts I'm attempting to discuss more cogently (and less repetitively), I'd consider it a favor if you'd provide an instructional demonstration.

Think of it as a public service for the Fray community - at least for those unfortunate few who find themselves reading one of my posts, or responses. You might end up sparing someone a great deal of pain.