so basically what you are saying is you can't step out from your view and empathize with others? It isn't a contest on who is discriminated against more, that is literally one of the most juvenile things one can do. Its recognizing that both groups face discrimination and should have some solidarity with each other with their struggles, even if its comes from different cultural points and different viewpoints. being gay and black i agree wholeheartedly that blacks had it far worse than gays, but attempting to quantify discrimination only does a service to those discriminating.