Try re-reading - Mr. "So-quick-to-call-others-bitter" (yatahey) -- the letter was sent to the woman through her daughter bc the ex did not have access to her postal address, which is how she wants it.
SHE put it in the bin. How else would she be so well versed in its gloating exaggeration - thinly veiled in smarmy, phoney commiseration?
Judging by the tone of your letter, I'd say you know precisely how to stick the knife in while pretending to be civil.
So transparent.
