achilleselbow, you are making a huge assumption that a degayed (did I just invent a new word?) baby would be happy and normal adult. What if the degayed baby grew up to be quite unhappy but was well accepted in society by being ungay (another new word?), is it still the better choice? You are also assuming that the burden of change should rest with the gay baby and not the people who don't like gay babies.

Social cohesion and social conformity are not the same, you are confusing conformity for cohesion.