Agreed. For what it's worth, a guy isn't going to ask his S.O. to drop a specific number of lbs; arbitrary target weight is more of a woman thing. Rather, a guy will request that she "get in shape". A request he might make if his 5'6" 140 lb S.O. is all flab and no gas. On the other hand, if his 5'6" 140 lb S.O. is trim and competes in 5K runs, he'll consider himself very lucky.