TheCloudBoy:

Of course, many Christians here in America are really just as bad with their thinking that kids should wait for their wedding night. All of these people just need to look at reality and move on.

Christians are just as bad? Is it really such a horrible thought to you to be faithful to your spouse both before and after the wedding? Parents know reality, and many times they have lived it. That's why they give it so much emphasis. One doesn't fight hard against something that one doesn't think is a real problem. You advocate capitulation of seriously held moral beliefs. Your respect for faith is illusory at best, and tongue-in-cheek mockery at worst.