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by danam

mermaid33:
Well, if my husband (of 15 years yesterday, thanks!) . . .

It's nice to see a working marriage in today's cut and run society. It's not that I'm anti-divorce but I think too many people get married for the wrong reasons and then they think divorce is the ONLY logical solution.

Which actually segues nicely into the topic at hand.

She is so repulsed by his diaper wearing that she has to completely block it from her mind and pretend like she never knew. But at the same time she wants to continue the relationship because she has so much time invested? I'm not sticking up for either of them because she is immature and he is gross.

But seriously! Does anyone see THIS relationship actually working for the long term? Either one or the other is going to be massively unhappy and break at some point.

mermaid33:
I can't believe someone is so dense that they couldn't read her reactions in other situations and gauge how she'd react to this.

I really think he knew what her reaction would be and that's why he waited so long. Which is not a valid excuse. What a weird way to break it to her! How was she suppose to react?

I think she also knew something was up. When she posted in the Fray she let on that he was extremely passive both in and out of the bedroom. (She undressed him?!?)

I think it's possible that a Diaper Lover and non Diaper Lover to work things out but I don't think that these two can do it. Not with her completely adverse reaction to his "quirk".

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